Wednesday, November 19, 2008

When an Instant Lasts an Eternity

There are moments in parenthood when life abruptly comes to a complete stand-still, and the health, happiness and sometimes even breath of your child seems to pause. I hate these moments. They are unsettling. They are terrifying. Thankfully, they are rare.

We had one of these moments yesterday evening. Bill and I make consciencious and educated decisions designed to keep our kids safe, and most of the time, we do a pretty good job. So when random acts occur that threaten the safety of our kids, I find the lack of foresight and control extremely nerve wracking.

The kids and I were all around the kitchen table. Brady was sitting on a chair doing his letter 'P' homework. I was standing at the table folding the boys' bedsheets. Parker's sheets were draped over a chair, and he was rubbing his face in the warm fabric making "hmmm" noises at the clean smell. Everything was peaceful. Everything was right.

Without warning Parker pulled too hard or just the right way on his sheets and the large wooden chair came crashing backward, completly flattening him. His head hit the ground, immediately folloewd by the chair back hitting his face. And for a split second (or an eternity!) everything stopped. There was no sound. There was no movement. There was no breath.

And then, the screaming. The little guy got smacked down hard, and the tears lasted quite a while. After a thorough review of his body, I determined he had no scratches, no blood, only a bruising mark on his upper cheek. With lots of hugs, kisses and of course Blue Blankie (thank you Chris Lee!) he settled onto the couch with some juice.

He ate some dinner. He played in the bubble tubby. He jumped naked from his bed, and he laughed when the dinosaur ate Earl Sidebottom's homework during storytime! In essense, he was perfectly fine. I, however, could not say the same. Shaken - and stirred - I said a little extra thanks during Parker's prayers when at last I tucked him in tight.

With this, I wanted to share a few awesome pix of my little jumper from Sea World last month.

Enjoy ~
















Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Puppy (and Dolphin and Dinosaur and Insect) Love



This post is simple and sweet.

I want to relay a conversation that I unapologetically eavesdropped on yesterday morning. We were driving to school with Parker in a middle row seat and Brady and Olivia in the back row together. One note of background - Olivia http://justplummerlucky.blogspot.com/2008/09/tigress-turns-five.html and her family had been gone on vacation, so the kids had not seen each other for 10 days.

The tone was quiet and sincere... and I had to work really hard to snoop on everything they said!!


"I love your pants, Olivia. They're beautiful."

Sweet smile and turn of her head. "Thanks. Do you like my braid?"

"Yes. And I like your bow. It's pretty."
Pause. "Olivia?" No answer. "Olivia??"

"Yes?"

"I missed you when you were gone."

"I missed you, too." Pause. "Then why did you hit me?" (referring to how Brady had basically tackled her earlier as they were greeting and getting into the car)

"I was just so excited to see you I wanted to give you a big hug."

Pause. "Oh. OK."


The moment the kids rolled out of the van, I called home and recited the entire conversation into our answering machine (which Bill thought was a completely wacky message when he heard it later!)

Have a wonderfully happy day, and don't forget to tell people that you like their pants!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Stone Mountain Fun... Finally!

Alright dear readers, I have been trying to find a "free" way to upload picture slideshows, and thanks to the help of my blog-Guru sister-in-law (yeah for http://jenningsmershon.blogspot.com/) I think I have finally figured it out! Watch out... the next week will have tons of pent up pictures!


A few Sundays ago we made a family outing to Stone Mountain Park to visit the huge hunk of exposed granite and to enjoy the park's Fall Festival. While we we sadly unable to ride the skylift to the top of the mountain due to the windy weather, there were many other fun activities in store!

The boys LOVE the adventure hike area where they get to climb rope challenges, score tall mountains and sail through the air on a zip-slide!

As part of the festivities they also enjoyed a kids' music show, a funny science show, a silly circus, a goofy maze that ended in bubbles and lots of pumpkins and crafts! Perfect Day!